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It's all about timing - Why does this inevitably happen?

 

I typically try to be on time for all of my appointments.  However, I am typically BARELY on time or perhaps five minutes late.  My wife claims that I don't know how long I take to get ready (showering, etc.), but that's not exactly true.  I simply don't allow enough time to get ready before leaving the house.  So there.

At any rate, I arrived about 15 minutes early today for my showing appointment, which is rare for me.  I know that some of you reading this will disagree with me, but I feel like I am wasting my time if I show up too early.  So, while I was waiting, the phone rang, and it was my client calling.  It turns out that they were running late. 

Of course they were.  I could have predicted that.  In fact, I was there before they even left their home to make the trip.

That happens to me almost without fail.  If I arrive early, they are running 15+ minutes behind, and I get to hang out and wait while listening to the radio or making some calls.

However, in the instances when I am more than a couple of minutes late for whatever reason (maybe 10 or more minutes), those are the days that my clients will definitely choose to arrive 45 minutes early, and "just drive around the area". 

 

During their perusal of the neighborhood, they will develop a list of 5-9 homes that they would like to take a look at later, depending on the price.  Of course, being the consummate professional that I am, I promise to look up these particular properties to see why they didn't make it onto our list.  Maybe they are too high in price, or too small for their needs, or missing a bedroom, or inferior in some other way.  No matter what, I can guarantee that this will prove to be a futile endeavor, because I ALREADY MADE A GOOD LIST FOR THEM. 

Secretly, when they find these "gems", they seem to assume that I am hiding some of the current inventory from their curious eyes.  Perhaps I don't really want to sell a house at all.  Maybe I am a real estate hobbyist, not a full-time real estate broker supporting my family on this income.  What have I done with the past eleven years of my life?

No, instead I will provide the details for them to see why I didn't choose to show those in the first place.

 

I guess the moral of this post is to arrive on time for your appointments, but I am in no position to teach this, or to judge anyone else for their habitual tardiness.  Instead, just be prepared with a good book (or your wireless notebook) if you are too early, and be aware that you may end up answering a series of questions about unsuitable homes, or drainage patterns, or unkempt adjacent subdivisions if you are a few minutes late.

Thanks for reading!

 

 

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Comments

I get to my appointments usually about 1 minute before I'm due.  (Seriously).  For some reason, no matter how early I leave, I always have some type of "drama" on the road.  Large trucks, school buses, garbage trucks, detours, river flooding, "the bridge is out" etc.  You name it, I'm involved in it..  It's freakish. 
Posted by Brian Luce (Weidel Realtors Doylestown) about 4 years ago

Heavens you're good. You pegged it. I feel the same way although you made me laugh about it and I can honestly say I don't usually do that. We do love shooting ourselves in the foot don't we? We got into this business so we "wouldn't sell a house". Whatever...

Later in the rain~Deb

Posted by Deb Brooks, Lake Conroe Real Estate, 936-661-2624 about 4 years ago
Hey, sorry I'm late Jason. Bumper-to-blog traffic on the dashboard. Did I miss anything?
Posted by Blogger To Be Named Later about 4 years ago

BRIAN - Sounds like you and I are kindred spirits.

DEB - Thanks!  I always appreciate your kind compliments.  I realized I left a few words off of the end of the post just now.  You were fast with your comments!

ANDREW - No problem.  I have taken the liberty of preparing an extensive list of questions for you which I will now proceed to pelt you with.

Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) about 4 years ago
Gee, um...what did you say? I drifted off there. I'm sorry.  I was on the phone with my other agent while you were running late. [Ouch ~ feel free to delete that one Jason!]
Posted by Blogger To Be Named Later about 4 years ago

Jasonizer, Isn't this a part of being a human or someone with a life?

Posted by Camarillo CA Real Estate Agent/ Mana Tulberg (805 County Real Estate) about 4 years ago
Jason- you always make me chuckle. I am almost always on time or a few minutes late...maybe that is why my clients have so many "new" homes popping up on the want to see list.lol I agree with you synopsis of the mentality behind looking on their own and what they think we are doing. I have had that same feeling.
Posted by Brentwood TN Homes, Real Estate Vanessa Stalets REALTOR® (RE/MAX Elite) about 4 years ago

ANDREW - Figures.

MANA LISA - Pretty much.  I just thought it was worth writing about.

Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) about 4 years ago
VANESSA - Glad you liked this one.  I always get the feeling that they are super-suspicious of my motives when they "find" others nearby.
Posted by Jason Crouch, Broker - Austin Texas Real Estate (512-796-7653) (Austin Texas Homes, LLC) about 4 years ago

Jason,

Don't be so hard on yourself!!!  You are almost working yourself into a minor crisis here.  You are doing fine... but you are right about how it goes... either I'm early and they're late or the other way around.  After years of going through this dance, I just try to do the best I can.  Sometimes I think you have to remind people that you ARE doing the best you can for them.  Usually your best will be enough (and more than they would get from the average agent).  Sometimes no one can do enough to make certain types of people happy. 

One thing I try to do is keep something interesting to read or an educational or motivational cd in my car to pass the time if I do have to wait on customers or other agents.  Just a thought.... Thanks for a good post! 

Posted by Jan Evett Panama City Beach, FL (Ryan Properties) about 4 years ago

Crouch - This is good man, darn good. 

"Maybe I am a real estate hobbyist, not a full-time real estate broker supporting my family on this income.  What have I done with the past eleven years of my life?"

God forbid you are actually good at what you do...and get paid for it.  From what I've gathered, you are pretty darn good at what you do.  I don't fall asleep to it, I fall intrigued by it.  Personally, I fall asleep reading Lenza and holding Bukaty:-)  In Real Estate matters in Austin, I'd just hire Crouch.

Posted by Jason Sardi (I love kittens cute & My Jennifer!!) about 4 years ago
Jason, I feel your pain.  Even if I am on time, I still get the list...and then it goes on to other neighborhoods, then other cities...and even on a few times, other states!
Posted by Jeremy Blanton (210 Consulting~ Social Media Advisors) about 4 years ago
Jason, My husband and daughter are always at least 15 minutes early in life.  Now me I breeze in right on time or maybe a few minutes either way.  It drives my husband NUTS.  Like you I have noticed those times I end up early my clients are late.  I have started keeping a copy of broker/agent news in my car to pass the time.
Posted by Marchel Peterson Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro (Results Realty) about 4 years ago

Me...I have a standing 10 minuet grace!  I almost always misjudge the amount of time it takes for me to get out the door...some last minuet task, or something on the way (draw bridge or train)  tips me past the "on time" moment...bad, I know.  I still try though.

Jason, I love the fact that you must have obviously missed some really great homes that your clients found while waiting for you!   :  )

Posted by Deborah Burns ~ Seattle Real Estate Agent (Realty Executives -BRIO) about 4 years ago
Jason, you are so right!  I'm early, they're late and vice-versa.  I seem to get the list of the other houses on the market in the neighborhood too.  Do they really think I'd not show them a house that fits all of their needs, wants and desires???  I love when my clients find the house of their dreams!  That's why I chose Real Estate to be my career. :)
Posted by Judi Morgan, San Antonio, TX Real Estate (Prudential Don Johnson Co., REALTORS) about 4 years ago
Jason, I never feel like it's a waste of time to be a little early.  I can make calls or jot notes while I'm waiting for someone to show up.  I just have a thing about being compulsively on-time!
Posted by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company Realtors) about 4 years ago

I don't feel I'm very good at keeping myself occupied when I'm waiting for someone.  I try to show up a little early but not too early.

Posted by Carolyn Gjerde-Tu - Davis Ca Real Estate (Lyon Real Estate) about 4 years ago

I believe it is the law of attraction Jason, you know, what we dwell on we create, what we try to avoid happens. I would create a new mantra for yourself... " I and my clients are always right on time!"

Just food for thought!

Susan

My thought for the day..... I am going to pass my Real Estate exam with flying colors! You will know tomorrow whether it works or not!

Posted by Susan Davis, Saving your clients money on their utilities. (Ambit Energy) about 4 years ago
One of my REALTOR friends told me 'REALTORS are always late'.  Well, I was always early when I was in the corporate world.  Now I'm not sure why, but I seem to run late way too often.  What's up with that?  
Posted by Phoenix Arizona Real Estate ~ Doreen McPherson (Homesmart ~ Scottsdale ~ Tempe) about 4 years ago
Jason, nowadays if I'm early for my appointments, I just log on to Active Rain from my office or on my cellphone and read some of your posts.  That way there's never any time wasted.
Posted by Brian Block -- Northern Virginia & D.C. Real Estate (RE/MAX Allegiance, Managing Broker/Branch Vice President) about 4 years ago

Jason,we let our clients pick out the houses and if we see one with a problem or too high, or for some reason didn't meet their needs they told us about we have a discussion on why they chose this. Too high etc...

Yea, my husband can't judge his time very well either, always takes him longer than he thinks.

Murphy's law for you on showing up early? I take a book or use my blackberry while waiting.  

Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor-Realtor® Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) about 4 years ago
I can't tell you how many times I have wanted to shoot myself in the BOTH feet for being late, which is typical of me. Something usually always happens to make me late, a call, can't get out of the office/home.whatever...we have more in common than I thought Jason !
Posted by Melissa Grant Virtual Assistant (Affordable VA Services) about 4 years ago

I'm almost always early...and hate it when my clients are late. Especially when I've scheduled several homes to see. I'm always worried that we will have to rush, or inconvenience the seller, or make several calls to reschedule everything, which is a huge pain. But, stuff happens sometimes...

Posted by Kelly Sibilsky (Licensed Through Referral Connection, LTD.) about 4 years ago
Jason- I finally have something to add to a post so stick with me here.  When I was in the corporate world (a mere eight years ago) I was a good worker bee.  I had someone paying me a salary and I was always at least 15 minutes early for work bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.  I had one job to do and did it very well.  However, I had many friends without the same work ethic and it showed in all aspects of their lives.  Inevitably I was early for all plans and they were late.  I thought they were cocky and inconsiderate of my time.  Everything changed when I got into real estate.  The first few weeks I felt I was on vacation because I controlled how I spent my time.  Then when the pay check didn't come every two weeks I kicked it into high gear and started working as hard for myself as I did in my previous career.  One morning a client complained to me about how my office opened three minutes late.  She was a chemistry teacher and got very upset.  The light bulb went off.  She was in the same 'mind set' I had been before I became an independent contractor.  Now I have more than 'one job'.  I am the broker, marketing manager, real estate consultant, legal department, sales person, negotiator, and the list goes on.  To get that many people at work on time would be a challenge in any company.  My goal is to show up 15 minutes early for every appointment.  I usually get there with no time to spare wondering where the time went.  I agree with the agent who said to keep reading and training material with you at all times.  I am a talker so I guess my cell phone saves me from feeling I am waisting my time if I have to wait.
Posted by Melody Botting Real Estate Network about 4 years ago

I used to never show up for anything on time...sometimes I just didn't show up.  It all changed about 5 years ago when I became an entrepreneur a complete freak about punctuality and started caring about it.  These days, I am only 7 minutes late and I write myself up for it everytime.  Next time it happens, I'm fired.

And of course your list is good...you're a PRO!

Posted by Amanda Hall * FORT WORTH TEXAS Real Estate Broker * (Hall Team Homes) about 4 years ago
I like you usually arrive pretty close to the exact appointment time.  Also like you, if I arrive early the client will be late and if I am late, the client will be there early.  It must be universal real estate law (sort of like the one that when you write an offer on a house no matter how long it has been on market, another buyer alwasy comes out of the woodwork 
Posted by Linda Tremblay, Associate Broker Bucks County, PA Real Estate Services (Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc, PA License #AB065488) about 4 years ago
The same thing happens to me, if I'm early they are late, if I'm late they are early!  There is NO such thing as an on time Realtor! 
Posted by Mary PAUL, ABR, CRS,GRI, e-PRO, (RE/MAX Advantage Realtors, Searcy, AR) about 4 years ago
Jason, this post made me smile.  We've had this problem in the past with people being late...including myself.  I finally got a piggy bank and requested that anyone who was more than 5 minutes late had to feed the pig!  We gave the proceeds to charity.  After, several months, the problem stopped. :)
Posted by Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate about 4 years ago

Jason,

Or do what Todd Clark does...use voice recognition to compose your posts when you're early and waiting!!! Thanks,   Fran

Posted by Fran 'The Title Man' Gaspari Title Insurance-PA & NJ (Patriot Land Transfer, Inc.) about 4 years ago

Jason- What a great post. I hate being too early too and it drives Nestor crazy! He hates being late or even on time! He expects to be early. But then when the other person is running late it seems like they are really late because you have already been waiting 10 minutes!

We have many different cultures down here, if your clients are from the Islands you can expect them to be at least 30 minutes late. We have adjusted our schedules accordingly.

Now, I always have my stuff ready in case I have to wait. Great time to do scripture study, catch up on my notes, write thank you notes, draft posts and ideas for my blog, and my favorite- AUDIO CD's- My university on wheels with all the great mentors of self improvement and leadership, etc. I LOVE THAT TIME!  

Posted by Nestor & Katerina Gasset Realtors® Wellington Florida Homes For Sale (International Properties and Investments LLC) about 4 years ago

REAL ESTATE HOBBYIST!!!  I finally have a name to put on the part time PIMA's that bog down my family time and schedule throughout the week!!!

Nice article - it is funny how people think you might be hiding a listing from them...ha!  Have a great weekend!

Posted by Nathan Scott (Morgan Keegan) about 4 years ago
Good point Jason.  The early bird can catch the worm and perhaps avoid the bitter one.  It is a daily work for me to practice timeliness as well:-)
Posted by Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing Consultant (Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision) about 4 years ago

Hi Jason,

I too am a 5 min. late guy.  So I am easier with my clients when they are late :)

You might want to do a single line area search and bring it with you to cross out the area houses that you didn't select and why.

I have to go, I am late  :)

 

Kevin

White Plains, NY

Posted by Kevin O'Shea, White Plains, NY Real Estate (Coldwell Banker) about 4 years ago
I'm with you! I am chronically 5-10 minutes late. I always call to let people know I'm running a few minutes late, but it's rare that I'm not late. And I completely agree about sitting there wasting time! The only way it doesn't bother me is if I have a good book or audio book with me. And I have had pointed out to me that by ME being late, I'm forcing the other people to wait, and waste THEIR time. So I guess that's a wake up call.
Posted by Lisa Hill (Daytona Beach Real Estate) (Florida Property Experts) about 4 years ago

I don't know about anyone else, but I seem to run late because I am trying to do "just one more thing" before I leave.  Or I am on google maps trying to figure out where the heck I am going!  Then I tell my clients that I would have been on time, but there were too many cops on the road, and I had to drive the speed limit.

On the rare occasion when I am early, I may try a mini-meditation session, or more likely, play a game on my treo!

With new clients, I am (almost) always on time. I dress better the first time I meet clients as well.  Hmmmm, maybe another blog post!

Posted by Carol Lee Realtor ® Agoura, Oak Park, Westlake CA Homes (Dilbeck Real Estate) about 4 years ago

I actually know several agents who have told me they are late on purpose because they think  that act makes them appear to be important. I wanted to say to them it is better to be important ( which comes with a good reputation) than to just appear so. 

Hope you are doing well.

Trey

Posted by Trey Thurmond, College Station , Texas Homes (Brazosland Classic Realty) about 4 years ago

Jason - I have the opposite problem.  I'm always early... some little 'ol lady might have to kick that walker into high gear to keep from getting a derriere full of chrome crossing the intersection, but I will be on time darnit.   

Posted by Fairbanks Alaska Real Estate Specialists Jesse & Kathy Clifton 907-328-9328 (Jesse Clifton & Associates, REALTORS®) about 4 years ago
Trey- that doesn't make them appear to be important- just rude and self centered.  I have partnered in the past with someone that was ALWAYS late, it made me nuts- alwasy somethin, the kids, the dog, needed to put gas in the car.
Posted by Carol Lee Realtor ® Agoura, Oak Park, Westlake CA Homes (Dilbeck Real Estate) about 4 years ago
Jason, Use my line (internalize it) - I learned it from a friend who became a physician, when she was studying psychology.  Procrastinators are highly intelligent.  They need to create artificial deadlines for themselves so that they can feel challenged when the realities of life are so mundane.  See?  Bet you feel better now!  We arrive late because we would be bored by arriving on time.  The creativity in making excuses must be what drives us.  Or something....  I'm clinging to that intelligence thing.  It's all I've got.  I also use Mapquest.  That has everyone's sympathy.
Posted by Susan Walters (Keller Williams Realty, Ann Arbor, MI) about 4 years ago

Jason:

I have a back ground in Corporate America and I was early and still am when scheduling appointments. I find that it is a sign of respect to honor another person time. I have been in this industry long enough to know that most meetings, seminars, and other events that are attended by real estate agents and brokers are usually never started on time.

Posted by Lorraine or Loretta Kratz-Certified Negotiation Consultants (Crescent Moon Realty, Inc. & Land N Sea Auctions.) about 4 years ago
I will fix your problems.  Set your clocks 15minutes forward and you won't be late.  If you are early, make phone calls or brainstorm new marketing ideas.
Posted by Spokane Home Loan -- Casey Brischle -- Mortgage Professional (Columbia Bank) about 4 years ago
Hey Jason~You are right. It is best to always show up early and be waiting on the client-not the other way around.
Posted by DOUG FRITCHIE-Silver Legacy Properties,Inc. about 4 years ago
Jason: I understand the timming. Have been there done that. Gotta love the ones who arrive 30-34 min early and expect you to be waiting on them. Just yesterday I was running 5 min behind and lucky the buyers were too
Posted by Roland Woodworth,SFR - Clarksville Short Sale and Foreclosure Resource (Keller Williams Realty) about 4 years ago

Jason:  I hate it when buyers think I'm holding out on listings they passed on the way into the neighborhood where we are going to meet.  I love to go back and say, "Mr. & Mrs. Buyer, that one on Maple Street is actually under contract," or "Mr. & Mrs. Buyer, that house you inquired about is listed out of your price range by about $75,000."  Why would we hide inventory?  UGH!!!!

Posted by Chris Ann Cleland, Associate Broker, Northern VA (Long & Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA) about 4 years ago
Jason, And I thought it was just me:) 
Posted by Rhode Island Realtor ~ Karen Hurst ~ www.stonehurstrealty.com (STONEHURST REALTY) about 4 years ago

Glad to hear that others have been in the same boat at some point.  It drives me crazy when I'm late... but it still happens from time to time.  My husband calls me "the slow leaver."  He even has made up a theme song, which only makes me more mad! 

Posted by KRISTA INGRAM (KELLER WILLIAMS REAL ESTATE, LLC) about 4 years ago
I try to be on time, but like you, if I am early they are always late.  If im late, they are early.  I find those books on CD are good time killers! 
Posted by Chad Baird (Re/Max Spirit) about 4 years ago
I showed up early for an appointment last weekend, and they were 45 minutes late . . . it's ok though I had a great visit with the buyer's agent.
Posted by Sharon Paxson Newport Beach Real Estate (Prudential California Realty, DRE License 01501912) about 4 years ago
Very cute...very true......i rip out articles out of magazines that i usually don't have time to read......stick them in a file folder - and leave them in the car for when I'm 'playing the waiting game'....:-) so i read with one eye - and watch out the rear view mirror with the other  ...
Posted by Liz Moras ~ Chilliwack Realtor, Garrison Crossing,Chilliwack, Abbotsford (Harrison Hot Springs, Cultus Lake) about 4 years ago
Jason ~ Great points you make. Why anyone would assume that we would "hide" homes from them? But I guess it goes to the survey conducted by Gallup, I believe, that says that the Public has about as much trust of real estate agents as they do for used car salesmen. Sad, but true!
Posted by Darleen McCullen, Broker-Raleigh, NC Real Estate about 4 years ago

Do the best you can, don't shoot yourself in the foot.  No one is perfect, play it off and keep moving.  Move forward.  It .... happens.  Life goes on.  Not the end of the world.  Be pleasant and make up for lost time. lol

good post

Posted by Rosemary Brooks-The Mother & Daughter Realty Team (EMBARCADERO Investments - 866-543-0461) about 4 years ago
That always happens to me to.  They must have some sort of ESP about whether their agents are running late or not.
Posted by Sandra Carlisle, DRE# 01364315 (First Team Estates) about 4 years ago
I always have a book or magazine in the car, and use the time to return my calls. I hate waiting and just sitting there!
Posted by Erica Ramus - Ramus Realty Group - Pottsville, PA about 4 years ago
I am always 3 minutes late, my husband is always 15 minutes early.  We rarely go to the movies anymore.
Posted by Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV MLS - Sun City Mesquite - 55+ Buyer Representative (ERA - Mesquite NV Homes For Sale) about 4 years ago

Ahhh...the never-ending timeliness scenario.  You're early.  They're late.  Or vice versa.

I just started something new, and it is going well.  We always meet at my office, and go shopping together in my car.  We get to know each other better, and there's no waiting in the car for either party.  If anyone has to wait, its me....but I can carry on my work until they arrive. 

Posted by Tony Fantis, Realtor , Principal Broker - Salt Lake City (Fantis Group Real Estate) about 4 years ago

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